Visualise the Best Version of You and Never Stop Showing Up as Her!
- She Said Club

- Sep 22
- 2 min read

There’s a powerful truth I want to share with you today: the best version of you already exists. She’s not some distant dream or an impossible standard. She’s right there, living inside you, waiting for you to step into her shoes. The question is - will you choose to rise and meet her?
We all have moments where life feels overwhelming. Days when doubt creeps in, when nothing seems to go right, and giving up feels easier than pushing forward. I’ve been there, too.
But here’s what I’ve learned: the difference between staying stuck and breaking through lies in one simple choice - the choice to keep showing up.
When we refuse to give up, we begin to build resilience. And when we combine that resilience with a positive, grateful frequency, we unlock a strength that can carry us through anything.
Positivity isn’t about pretending everything is perfect; it’s about choosing to see the light even in the shadows. It’s about saying, “I trust myself to handle whatever comes my way, and I am grateful for the lessons along the journey.”
Gratitude is magnetic.
The more we lean into it, the more we attract reasons to be grateful. Think about it, when you focus on what’s going wrong, you notice more negativity. But when you tune your heart to gratitude, you begin to notice the beauty that was always there.
The morning coffee in your hands, the friend who checks in, the courage you found to get out of bed and try again. Those small acknowledgements create a ripple effect.
This is what I call choosing your frequency. Imagine your energy like a radio station. If you’re tuned into doubt, fear, or comparison, that’s the soundtrack of your life. But if you decide, intentionally, to tune into positivity, hope, and gratitude, your whole world begins to shift.
And guess what? You are in control of that dial. Always.
So, how do you start showing up as the best version of yourself?
You visualise her. Close your eyes and see her: how she walks, how she speaks, how she handles challenges. Feel her confidence, her grace, her determination. And then here’s the magic start making small choices in your day that align with her. She doesn’t give up. She doesn’t let fear silence her. She chooses gratitude, even when it’s hard.
And every time you make that choice, you move closer to her. Step by step, day by day, you’re no longer just imagining the best version of you. You are her.
So if you’re reading this and thinking about quitting on a dream, a goal, or even yourself, pause. Breathe. Choose gratitude. Choose positivity. And most importantly, choose to keep going. Because the best version of you is cheering you on. She knows you’ve got this. And so do I. 💫


