Sleep - our most powerful tool.
- She Said Club

- Jul 17
- 2 min read

Sleep is one of the most powerful tools for a woman’s overall wellbeing, yet it's often the first thing we sacrifice. From hormonal fluctuations and parenting demands to stress, anxiety, and overloaded mental to-do lists, sleep can feel elusive, inconsistent, or simply low on the priority list. But the truth is: sleep is essential, not optional.
Women are uniquely impacted by changes in sleep patterns across their lifespan. Hormonal cycles, pregnancy, perimenopause, and menopause can all contribute to disrupted sleep, insomnia, or fatigue. During perimenopause and menopause, declining estrogen and progesterone levels affect the body's ability to regulate temperature, mood, and relaxation, leading to night sweats, restless sleep, or early waking.
On top of this, the emotional load many women carry can make it harder to fall and stay asleep.
Lack of quality sleep doesn’t just make you tired, it affects concentration, emotional regulation, immune function, metabolism, and long-term mental health. Chronic sleep deprivation has been linked to increased risk of anxiety, depression, heart disease, and even hormonal imbalance.
Put simply: you can't pour from an empty cup, and without sleep, that cup runs dry very quickly.
Creating better sleep habits starts with reclaiming rest as a non-negotiable act of self-care.
Small, consistent changes can have a big impact:
Establish a wind-down routine: Aim for a consistent bedtime and a calming pre-sleep , guilt free ritual (reading, stretching, journaling, or dim lighting).
Limit screens before bed: Blue light from phones and tablets can interfere with melatonin production. Try switching off devices at least 30 minutes before sleep.
Regulate your room: Keep your sleep environment cool, quiet, and dark, consider blackout curtains, white noise machines, or eye masks.
Track your cycle: Hormones can affect sleep. Use a tracker to understand patterns and adjust your rest needs accordingly.
Mind your mind: If racing thoughts keep you up, try a mindfulness or breathing app, or keep a notebook beside your bed to offload worries.
Remember: improving sleep is a practice, not a perfection game. Every step you take toward prioritising rest is an investment in your energy, clarity, mood, and long-term health. You deserve deep, uninterrupted rest, not just to function, but to feel like the nest version of yourself!


